Responding to Victim Mentality
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“Let’s stay focused on the actual issue.”
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“I’m not here to argue feelings—I’m here to address behavior.”
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“I understand you feel hurt. That doesn’t cancel what happened.”
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“We can’t solve anything if everything becomes about you.”
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“Being uncomfortable doesn’t mean you’re being attacked.”
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“You’re allowed to feel how you feel. I’m still allowed to set boundaries.”
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“If accountability feels like an attack, there’s deeper work to be done.”
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